No matter what traditions or festivities you celebrate or whether you plan on spending this year with family, friends or alone, there is no singular portrait of the holidays. Make the holidays your own by planning in the best way for you.
Consider your holiday goals based on whether you plan on spending the season…
…with yourself
Before the holidays, set aside a couple of days to examine what you're really looking for. Is it solitude and self-care to recharge your battery? Is this the time to explore cultural roots or a chance to serve your community? What do you want your holiday traditions to be? Take this time to enjoy activities you may not get to if you spent the season with others.
…with family
Families come in all shapes and sizes. Plan your holidays based on what suits your particular needs. For younger families, this is a good time to start experimenting and discover events and traditions you enjoy. For large groups, it can be chaotic to attempt a lot of activities – consider simplifying and focusing on just a few favorites this year. If the holidays need to be divided between families, the planning can be complicated but be assured, kids often don't mind celebrating more than once.
…with a partner
Spending the holidays with your significant other can create magical memories. Some things to consider when sharing the holidays with your partner include:
Conflicting traditions
Sharing time between families
Negotiating a budget
Compromising over events and activities
Differences in availability and time off
…with friends
You’ve probably heard of “Friendsgiving,” but there’s no reason why you can’t spend other holidays with friends as well. Enjoying quality time with people who love and support you can make the season just a little brighter. If you and your friends celebrate different holidays, cooperate and experience a variety of different cultures and traditions throughout the season.
Trying to accomplish every holiday goal this holiday season is tempting yet unrealistic. Visualize what you need and want and take the holidays into your own hands.